The tears won't stop and all I want is to get him back. What should I do? I know its long but please help?

You and your boyfriend both have some "maturity" issues. Each of you seems to be expecting a lot from the other, and each of you seems to be getting disappointed frequently. Real love is caring more about the feelings of the other person than you do about your own, and I don't see in your description of the events that either of you seriously acts that way. True, he has done a lot of things which show that he is not sensitive to your feelings. But some of your actions don't seem really sensitive to his, either, and if you are having difficulty recognizing this fact, it only proves my point about "maturity." Your best course of action, in my opinion, is to ask yourself if you got enough happiness from the relationship to justify the amount of work you had to put in. It doesn't look like it to me, and a wise choice might be to give yourself opportunities to meet other guys who might be more sensitive to your needs while at the same time learning to watch for the guy whose feelings mean more to you than your own do.